A Case for the Imperfect Home 🏡

In which the DIY Decade, social media, and the Great Grasping come to a head.

View of the street where a dusting of snow has fallen. Sunrise glows orange on the horizon behind silhouettes of bare trees.
Perfect sunrise view from my deeply imperfect home.

You already know this, but between 2020 and today, everyone on the Internet became a do-it-yourselfer. We painted our homes the oh-my-gosh-no-one-has-ever-done-this-before white with black trim. (Or just all black.) We re-plumbed entire bathrooms or changed out faucet fixtures for “a whole new look.” We added peel-and-stick plastic to our boring apartment linoleum. We were restless, we were stuck inside, and a global pandemic raged just outside our doors.

Our homes made us rage, too, in a different way. Updating them was catharsis, a way of grasping at control in an unstable world. And documenting that change on your social media platform of choice became a “middle-class obsession” (in the wise words of the one and only Anne Helen Petersen). We were home MAKING.